The sun is shining, a light breeze is blowing, and birds are singing on this beautiful Michigan July day at one of my favorite places with many of my favorite people. As I step outside my grandparents’ home to enjoy the sunshine, I hear the familiar sound of the trampoline. On it is my Uncle Dave. Let me introduce you to Uncle Dave. 

Uncle Dave is in his upper thirties. He enjoys bouncing on the trampoline and going for walks. He loves listening to music and watching his shows, especially the Gospel Bill Show. He lives with his parents, my Nana and Grandpa and does not talk but receives assistance from Nana and Grandpa for basic tasks such as preparing food and doing laundry. He is the youngest of seven and has more than thirty nieces and nephews. He is part of our family gatherings and helps to bring family together. He is not concerned for self-promotion and does not worry about from where his next meal will come. Like all of us, he sometimes can become frustrated or upset or sad or happy or excited. I enjoy being with Uncle Dave and going for walks with him. He reminds me to let go of my worries, to live simply, to be grateful, and to be present with people, and he reminds me of the importance and the beauty of family. 

My Nana and Grandpa are among the most faithful and loving people I know. They have loved and taught and cared for Uncle Dave for decades, receiving support from their other children. Their example inspires me to want to serve others. Unfortunately, many others like my Uncle Dave have certain needs but do not have a family that is able to care for them. They need a wider community of support to meet their basic needs and to know that they are genuinely loved. 

When I think about it, I share many of these same needs, physical and emotional. I am not as independent as I sometimes imagine. Much of what I use, eat, wear, and touch has passed through many hands and processes before coming to me. As much as I try to control my circumstances, a simple storm or a night sky or a sickness or a small child can remind me how small and dependent I am. I recognize my weakness and dependence, and at least for a moment, let go of my pride and worry and ambition. I too need a community of support, and I am thankful. 

Uncle Dave challenges us to ask the following questions: 

Who in your life is an inspiration to you? 

What gifts can you receive from others who are different from you? 

Are there worries you can let go of today? Are there things or people you are thankful for? 

Are there ways that you can serve or validate the human dignity of someone else? 

I hear the dinner bell ring. Soon everyone will gather in our backyard, sing a song together, give God thanks, and begin eating. Nana has already prepared Uncle Dave’s plate as he is called to come and eat. Surely we are better because of Uncle Dave! 

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